Wednesday, January 26, 2011


I wish I had something witty, funny, or inspirational to say about heartbreaks. But honestly..I don't. I'll tell you what I do know about them...

They hurt. Heartbreaks hurt whether you're a 5 year old in Kindergarten, or whether you're an adult. They hurt you solidly to the bones. They make you feel like you're not going to ever be able to go on. They make you feel like you're drowning. When you have your heartbroken, you have to remind yourself to breathe from time to time, because it feels like the weight of the world is down upon you and you just can't move. It hurts you to your core. No one can understand what someone else's heartbreak is like, because it's yours and yours alone. It is one of the most painful things you'll ever experience. Heartbreak comes in so many forms...relationships, deaths, anything that turns your world upside down and shakes you until it hurts for someone to physically touch you. Every morning you wake up, you'll want to be back asleep...sleeping until you wake up and it doesn't hurt anymore.'ll wake up, and it'll hurt a lot less. And eventually you'll wake up and it won't hurt at all.

It doesn't happen over night...waiting for the pain to go away could take a long, long time. And you won't ever forget what happened to break your heart. But it won't hurt anymore. And it might have even taught you something.

So just remember...everyday you wake up, and feel like you can't move because of the weight of sadness, and you can't breathe because it feels like your drowning...just remember that one'll be gone.

You'll be okay.

I'll be okay.


  1. Major hugs to you mama! You are so wise. We are praying and sending happy and healing vibes your way.

  2. ((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))) One day you will be okay. I had a break up once that just about ended me. I was so heart broken for so long. I'm so sorry you're there right now. I'm glad you wrote this so you can come back and look at it. xo

  3. Yes, you will be ok. You will come out of this ordeal stronger and wiser than you already are. I like to look at every heartbreak in my life as a test from God. He is preparing you for something great. It maybe hard to see it now but when your blessing comes you will understand.

    Hang in there and keep moving forward one day at a time. Keeping you & the boys in prayer.


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